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This woman shared that she's #DisabledAndCute. The internet reacted.

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Keah Brown feels cute, and she’s not afraid to show it.

But for the 25-year-old from upstate New York, it hasn’t always been that way.

“It took me a while to get to that place to feel any sort of positive thing about my physical appearance,” says Brown, who has cerebral palsy. “So now that I do, I’m like, hey, I might as well celebrate it.”

On Feb. 12, 2017, Brown shared photos of herself on Twitter using the hashtag #DisabledAndCute.

I want to shoutout my Disabled brothers, sisters, & non-binary folks! W/ #DisabledAndCute pic.twitter.com/Qcx5mvc1UI

— Keah Brown (@Keah_Maria) February 12, 2017

The idea behind the hashtag was pretty simple.

“What I wanted to do was make something that felt empowering to me and to other disabled people,” she explains.

The message caught on.

Others in the disability community started sharing photos of themselves using the hashtag, too.

#disabledandcute, howbow dah? pic.twitter.com/Hpmrbu70nn

— Marina Carlos (@MarinaCpom) February 12, 2017

Before long, #DisabledAndCute became a trending phrase, with lots of people joining the conversation.

#DisabledandCute Shoutout to all my ♿️ sisters out here pic.twitter.com/TXsEJHk6U6

— Unruly ♿️ (@Eliza_Heidi) February 12, 2017

“I wanted to do something to celebrate disabled folks and take the time to really take back the narrative that all we are is something to be pitied or used as what I’d call, ‘inspiration porn,’” Brown says.

Inspiration porn, she notes, is “only being as valuable as what you can achieve or make able-bodied people feel about themselves.”

Did someone say #disabledandcute ? pic.twitter.com/rcv5bqunBJ

— Ariana Ferrone (@ArianaWrites) February 12, 2017

The hashtag became intersectional, too, with people from all walks of life and various experiences chiming in.

Sometimes, pets made appearances.

3 months post surgery #15 and 2 months post beating a near-fatal Staph Infection from surgery. I Look Cute! so does my cat #disabledandcute pic.twitter.com/6gI7AIIbZ9

— LG (@lgrate1) February 12, 2017

But mostly, the hashtag filled up with selfies from folks who were feeling good about being themselves.

Oh well….hi. #disabledandcute 😎😂 pic.twitter.com/F53aNa2nnE

— Tito (@TitoTitoq85) February 12, 2017

“It’s been overwhelmingly positive,” Brown explains of responses to the hashtag — although not everyone’s been on board.

Some voices in the disability community were critical of Brown’s choice of the word “cute,” she says, explaining that able-bodied people often talk down to folks who are living with a physical disability. When able-bodied people say things like, “You’re so adorable” to those living with a physical disability, it can be demeaning and infantilizing.

But that point wasn’t lost on Brown.

“What I wanted to do was reclaim the word ‘cute,’” she says. “I think it’s OK when we feel cute, and it’s OK to say that.”  

I have mild cerebral palsy and mild scoliosis and I’m autistic and I think I sprained my leg today. #DisabledAndCute pic.twitter.com/QpBiE8iYPe

— my leg hurts (@SmolGardner) February 12, 2017

“I generally dislike making human beauty the focus of any discussion,” one user wrote. “But why not celebrate?”

This #disabledandcute thing got me thinking. I generally dislike making human beauty the focus of any discussion… But why not celebrate? 🎉 pic.twitter.com/9IPULVxqSW

— Gaelynn Lea (@GaelynnLea) February 12, 2017

“A lot of times — specifically with social media — disabled people are often used as memes or jokes,” says Brown.

“And this hashtag was a way to put that on its head and for people to tell their own story and celebrate themselves in a positive way.”

#DisabledAndCute yes indeed thank you very much ♿️🤓🔥 pic.twitter.com/8T3bXz0Fjx

— Carrie Wade (@wadetheory) February 12, 2017

Scrolling through responses, you’ll notice #DisabledAndCute wasn’t so much about being “brave” — it was about loving who you are…

Celebrating body positivity, acceptance, visibility & joy with #DisabledAndCute “you’re so brave” nah, I’m just dope pic.twitter.com/vcmnagyGTb

— Danielle Perez (@DivaDelux) February 13, 2017

…and showing off fierce photos, too.

Here’s my fierce take on #DisabledAndCute pic.twitter.com/iZVYvlKUI9

— alice wong (@SFdirewolf) February 13, 2017

Some people’s disabilities were more visible than others.

#DisabledAndCute I’m totally game. Mine is inside me, 4 surgeries so far 😷 😂🙊🙊🙌 STILL ALIVE HOMIES pic.twitter.com/mn57GZ272Q

— Kimani Okearah (@theKimansta) February 12, 2017

But that wasn’t the point, either.

Hashtag love! Keep them coming ❤️ #DisabledAndCute pic.twitter.com/K9hh8w5ZkN

— Angel Dixon (@angeledendixon) February 13, 2017

“We are all hella #DisabledAndCute” was more what the hashtag was going for.

Today @Keah_Maria has me celebrating along with my disabled and non-binary siblings. We are all hella #DisabledAndCute pic.twitter.com/uoSs5F1X4V

— Christian McMahon (@BionicTweed) February 12, 2017

And the internet pulled it off quite nicely.

me being #disabledandcute pic.twitter.com/bsAf8VZV2C

— monique 🍓 (@moniquekia_) February 12, 2017

Brown wants able-bodied people to understand she “doesn’t have to be your inspiration porn or your pity party to be good enough.”

But she’d appreciate your help in fighting for what’s right.

Disabled people “can have happy lives — we can be loved,” she notes. “We don’t need you to feel bad for us. It would be nice if you were in our corner when we’re fighting for our rights, but you don’t have to feel bad for us, because we’re living full lives.”  

Check out more photos and join the discussion on #DisabledAndCute.

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